Tauba(repentance)

by Dr. Saleh as-Saleh (Rahimahullaah)Transcribed by : Umm Hasna Firdous Bint Jabir min Sri Lanka

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Bismillaahir Rahmanir Raheem. 

Khutbatul Haajah…  

The o­ne who forgives the sins, alhamdulillaah! The o­ne who accepts the repentance. I testify that Allaah alone deserves to be worshipped, subhanahu wa ta'ala. He is the most Generous and He is the o­ne who bestows upon us at-Taubah, repentance. Repentance is the task of the entire life. It is the beginning and the end of slave worship. It is the first station of the station of slavery to Allaah. It is its middle and it is its end. Our need for it is very great because we sin a lot and we become negligent concerning the right of Allaah upon us. Day and night we go through heedlessness. So we need that which polishes the hearts & purifies it from the accumulation of sins and disobedience and their stains. Tauba is to abandon the sin knowing its ugliness. With regards to doing it we should be determined not to return to indulge in it out of love, sincerity and hope for reward from Allaah fearing the punishment and that to be before examining death and before the sun rises from the West. This is the Tauba. Allaah opens its doors and promises to accept it irrespective of how major or how many sins there may be. Allaah says: 'Turn ye unto obedience and repentance with true faith to your Lord and submit to Him in Islaam before the torment comes upon you, then you will not be helped.'         

Allaah says: 'And it is He who accepts repentance from His slaves and forgives sins and He knows what you do.' 

Allaah says : 'And whoever does evil or wrongs himself but afterwards seeks Allaah's forgiveness, he will find Allaah Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful – subhanahu wa ta'ala. 

And He said concerning the Christians in (Surah Maidah 5: 73–74) urging them to repent : Surely, disbelievers are those who said: "Allaâh is the third of the three (in a Trinity)." But there is no ilâh (god) (none who has the right to be worshipped) but o­ne Ilâh (God -Allâah). And if they cease not from what they say, verily, a painful torment will befall the disbelievers among them.' 

Then he urged them to repent to Him and said: 'Will they not repent to Allâh and ask His Forgiveness? For Allâh is Oft­ Forgiving, Most Merciful.'

How many of us use this verse when we give Dawah to the Christians in particular when they nullify what Allaah nullifies from trinity. How many of us think about verse 74? 'Will they not repent to Allâaah and ask His Forgiveness? For Allâh is Oft­ Forgiving, Most Merciful.Giving them hope, giving them glad tidings that Allaah forgives this great error of theirs. 

And Allaah spoke concerning the people of the Ditch Surah Burooj (85:10) – 'Verily, those who put into trial the believing men and believing women (by torturing them and burning them), and then do not turn in repentance, (to Allâah), will have the torment of Hell, and they will have the punishment of the burning Fire.' 

Al Hasan al Basri (Rahimahullah) said : Look to this great generosity of Allaah. They killed His friends whilst He calls them to repent and ask His forgiveness.' 

Allaah warns us none should despair of His Mercy in (Surah Zumar : 39-53) - Say: "O 'Ibâdî (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allâah, verily Allâah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

Ibn Abbas (may Allaah be pleased with him) commented saying : 'anyone who despairs the slaves of Allaah after the revelation of the above verse, then he has denied the Book of Allaah.' 

As to the merits of Tauba,  its secrets & its blessings, then these are numerous and diverse. 

Tauba calls to success. Tauba leads to happiness. Tauba expiates sins & if it is perfected it changes the sins into good deeds. And when a slave turns in repentance to Allaah it is o­ne of the most beloved acts of worship to Allah and Allaah subhanahu wa ta'ala is pleased with the tauba of those asking for it. 

The Prophet (sal allaahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said in the hadith reported by Bukhari & Muslim : 'A believer sees his sins as if he is sitting under a mountain which he is afraid may fall o­n him. Whereas an evil, wicked doer considers his sins as flies passing over his nose and he just drives them away.'

Ibn Masud added Allaah's Messenger (sal allaahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said: Allaah is more pleased with the repentance of his slave than a man who encamps at a place where his life is jeopardized. But he has his riding animal carrying his food and water. He then rests his head and sleeps for a short while and wakes to find his riding animal gone. He starts looking for it and suffers from severe heat and thirst or what Allaah wished him to suffer from. He then says: 'I will go back to my place.' He returns and sleeps again. Then when he wakes up, he raises his head to find his riding animal standing beside him. So imagine his happiness. Allaah said in the beginning here that Allaah is more pleased with the repentance of his slave than the situation of pleasure that this person experiences after he was saved from death. Such pleasure was not mentioned concerning other worships, (meaning other than the tauba) and know that this pleasure has a profound influence o­n the status of the o­ne who repents and o­n his heart.

From the merits of Tauba is that : through its great influence o­n the stations of uboodiyah, brings forth love, kindness, softness, mildness, gratitude to Allaah, praise of Him, being pleased with Him, enjoying his many blessings. And from its merits 'humbleness.' – humility of the heart, submissiveness to Allaah. And this is more beloved to Allaah than many of the apparent actions. Although the apparent actions may be more in quantity and quality than the slavery of repentance. Why? Because humility & humbleness is the spirit of worship and its essence. That's why Allaah subhanahu wa ta'ala is with the broken hearts, the humble o­nes to Him, & that's why He subhanahu wa ta'ala is most near to His slave when he is in the position of humbleness & humility – and that is the prostration. Because this is the station of humility. And this may be the secret behind the response of Allaah to the invocation of the oppressed, the invocation of the traveler & to the invocation of the fasting person. Because of the humility in their hearts. The anguish of the oppressed causes the broken heart. Similarly the traveler finds broken heartedness (humility) when he travels to strange places. Similarly in a fasting person, it breaks the animalistic drive for lust & desires as Imaam Ibn Qayyim (rahimahullah) discussed. Despite the greatness of tauba and its great blessings there are however mistakes made by many people regarding tauba. And that is due to ignorance or negligence and his heedlessness. 

From these mistakes:

1)Delaying repentance : In this case the person should repent for his sins & from his delay in repenting. 

2)Paying no attention to Tauba: paying no attention to those sins the person may not know that he had committed. Because there are secret sins that are hidden & there are sins that the person is ignorant of. There is no salvation from this except through a general tauba : from that which he knows & from that which he doesn't know. And that's why the Prophet (salallaahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said that shirk in this ummah is more hidden & concealed than the creeping of ants. 

Abu Bakr (may Allaah be pleased with him) asked Prophet (salallaahu alaiyhi wa sallam) how we could we rid ourselves from this. He (salallaahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said: reciting  

Supplication for fear of shirk : (Quoted by Bukhari)

 

'O Allaah, I take refuge in You lest I should commit shirk with You knowingly and I seek Your forgiveness for what I do unknowingly.'



3)From the mistakes is to abandon tauba fearing that o­ne may return to the sin again or fearing from criticism by others or fearing to go to a lower rank & losing prestige & fame. This is a mistake that should be avoided. Thus the person should be determined to repent. And if he returns to the same sin, let him renew the tauba o­ne more time & so o­n if it recurs. And let him realize that if he repents Allaah will compensate him with good for that which he abandoned. 

4)Widening the extent of the sin depending o­n the Mercy of Allaah and this is grave error. Why because, we know 'Yes' that Allaah is the Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful but we also know that He is severe in punishment. Allaah says: and never will his wrath be turned back from the people who are criminals, sinners etc. So the person has to remember this as well. 

5)Repentance of the liars: those who abandon the sins temporarily due to sickness, accidents or other reasons, due to fear or hoping for some prestige. Whenever they get the opportunity, they return to the sins. This is the tauba of the kazzabeen – the repentance of the liars. It is not a true tauba. Not including of course in this the type of people who may think of committing a sin (his self invites/incites him to commit a sin) or that shaytaan deceived him & made him commit it. Then he regrets it and he repents. This is a true repentance. Also NOT included are thoughts -- as long as they are thoughts and not materialized into action. 

6)The delusion concerning the respite (an interval of rest or relief / a period of temporary delay) which Allaah gives to the wrongdoers. This turns people off from tauba. And that's why the Prophet (salallaahu alaiyhi wa sallam) said: that if you see Allaah giving His slaves from the bounties in this life whilst he is sinning, He gives him what he likes – then this is a gradual attraction to punishment. Then the Prophet (salallaahu alaiyhi wa sallam) recited the saying of Allaah from Surah al-An'am:44 'So, when they forgot (the warning) with which they had been reminded, We opened to them the gates of every (pleasant) thing, until in the midst of their enjoyment in that which they were given, all of a sudden, We took them to punishment, and lo! They were plunged into destruction with deep regrets and sorrows. (This is reported by Imaam Ahmed & the men of narration are trustworthy.)

Anyone who does evil will be recompensed for. And maybe that the sinner thinks his body is safe & then thinks that there is no punishment while his heedlessness concerning the fact that he will be punished if he does not repent in itself is a punishment. Ibn al-Jawzi (rahimahullaah) said: What is incumbent upon the intellectual (a person who has sound intellect) is to be cautious concerning his sins because its fire is under the ashes, and may be that the punishment is delayed due to the clemency of Allaah & may be it comes speedily. A person of sound intellect, when he commits a sin will hasten to repent. 

7)From the mistakes concerning repentance is the despair from the Mercy of Allaah & the despair from repentance. Some people when they indulge in excessive sins and they repent o­nce or twice, then they return to the sin o­nce more & thereafter they return to the sin over and over again, they despair from the Mercy of Allaah. And this is a grave error. Because none despairs from the mercy of Allaah except the disbelievers. 

We ask Allaah subhanahu wa ta'ala to assist us to be from those who repent sincerely to Him and may He, the Most High accept our repentance. Walhamdulillaahi rabbil Aalameen. 

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Agenda Harian

Semoga kita senantiasa terpacu untuk mengukir prestasi amal yang akan memperberat timbangan kebaikan di yaumil akhir, berikut rangkaian yang bisa dilakukan

1. Agenda pada sepertiga malam akhir

a. Menunaikan shalat tahajjud dengan memanjangkan waktu pada saat ruku’ dan sujud di dalamnya,

b. Menunaikan shalat witir

c. Duduk untuk berdoa dan memohon ampun kepada Allah hingga azan subuh

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

يَنْزِلُ رَبُّنَا تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى كُلَّ لَيْلَةٍ إِلَى السَّمَاءِ الدُّنْيَا حِينَ يَبْقَى ثُلُثُ اللَّيْلِ الْآخِرُ فَيَقُولُ مَنْ يَدْعُونِي فَأَسْتَجِيبَ لَهُ مَنْ يَسْأَلُنِي فَأُعْطِيَهُ مَنْ يَسْتَغْفِرُنِي فَأَغْفِرَ لَهُ

“Sesungguhnya Allah SWT selalu turun pada setiap malam menuju langit dunia saat 1/3 malam terakhir, dan Dia berkata: “Barangsiapa yang berdoa kepada-Ku maka akan Aku kabulkan, dan barangsiapa yang meminta kepada-Ku maka akan Aku berikan, dan barangsiapa yang memohon ampun kepada-Ku maka akan Aku ampuni”. (HR. Bukhari Muslim)


2. Agenda Setelah Terbit Fajar

a. Menjawab seruan azan untuk shalat subuh

” الَّلهُمَّ رَبَّ هَذِهِ الدَّعْوَةِ التَّامَّةِ وَالصَّلاَةِ الْقَائِمَةِ آتِ مُحَمَّدًا الْوَسِيْلَةَ وَالْفَضِيْلَةَ وَابْعَثْهُ مَقَامًا مَحْمُوْدًا الَّذِي وَعَدْتَهُ “

“Ya Allah, Tuhan pemilik seruan yang sempurna ini, shalat yang telah dikumandangkan, berikanlah kepada Nabi Muhammad wasilah dan karunia, dan bangkitkanlah dia pada tempat yang terpuji seperti yang telah Engkau janjikan. (Ditashih oleh Al-Albani)

b. Menunaikan shalat sunnah fajar di rumah dua rakaat

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

رَكْعَتَا الْفَجْرِ خَيْرٌ مِنَ الدُّنْيَا وَمَا فِيْهَا

“Dua rakaat sunnah fajar lebih baik dari dunia dan segala isinya”. (Muslim)

وَ قَدْ قَرَأَ النَّبِيُّ صَلىَّ اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَ سَلَّمَ فِي رَكْعَتَي الْفَجْرِ قُلْ يَا أَيُّهَا الْكَافِرُوْنَ وَقُلْ هُوَ اللهُ أَحَدَ

“Nabi saw pada dua rakaat sunnah fajar membaca surat “Qul ya ayyuhal kafirun” dan “Qul huwallahu ahad”.

c. Menunaikan shalat subuh berjamaah di masjid –khususnya- bagi laki-laki.

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

وَلَوْ يَعْلَمُوْنَ مَا فِي الْعَتْمَةِ وَالصُّبْحِ لأَتَوْهُمَا وَلَوْ حَبْوًا

“Sekiranya manusia tahu apa yang ada dalam kegelapan dan subuh maka mereka akan mendatanginya walau dalam keadaan tergopoh-gopoh” (Muttafaqun alaih)

بَشِّرِ الْمَشَّائِيْنَ فِي الظّلَمِ إِلَى الْمَسَاجِدِ بِالنُّوْرِ التَّامِّ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ

“Berikanlah kabar gembira kepada para pejalan di kegelapan menuju masjid dengan cahaya yang sempurna pada hari kiamat”. (Tirmidzi dan ibnu Majah)

d. Menyibukkan diri dengan doa, dzikir atau tilawah Al-Quran hingga waktu iqamat shalat

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

الدُّعَاءُ لاَ يُرَدُّ بَيْنَ الأَذَانِ وَالإِقَامَةِ

“Doa antara adzan dan iqamat tidak akan ditolak” (Ahmad dan Tirmidzi dan Abu Daud)

e. Duduk di masjid bagi laki-laki /mushalla bagi wanita untuk berdzikir dan membaca dzikir waktu pagi

Dalam hadits nabi disebutkan:

كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صَلىَّ اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : ” إَذَا صَلَّى الْفَجْرَ تَرَبَّعَ فِي مَجْلِسِهِ حَتَّى تَطْلُعَ الشَّمْسُ الْحَسَنَاءُ

” Nabi saw jika selesai shalat fajar duduk di tempat duduknya hingga terbit matahari yang ke kuning-kuningan”. (Muslim)

Agenda prioritas

Membaca Al-Quran.

Allah SWT berfirman:

“Sesungguhnya waktu fajar itu disaksikan (malaikat). (Al-Isra : 78) Dan memiliki komitmen sesuai kemampuannya untuk selalu:

- Membaca ½ hizb dari Al-Quran untuk mendapatkan khatam Al-Quran sebanyak 1 kali

- Membaca 1 hizb dari Al-Quran untuk mendapatkan khatam Al-Quran sebanyak 2 kali

- Bagi yang mampu menambah lebih banyak dari itu semua, maka akan menuai kebaikan berlimpah insya Allah.

3. Menunaikan shalat Dhuha walau hanya dua rakaat

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

يُصْبِحُ عَلَى كُلِّ سُلَامَى مِنْ أَحَدِكُمْ صَدَقَةٌ فَكُلُّ تَسْبِيحَةٍ صَدَقَةٌ وَكُلُّ تَحْمِيدَةٍ صَدَقَةٌ وَكُلُّ تَهْلِيلَةٍ صَدَقَةٌ وَكُلُّ تَكْبِيرَةٍ صَدَقَةٌ وَأَمْرٌ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ صَدَقَةٌ وَنَهْيٌ عَنْ الْمُنْكَرِ صَدَقَةٌ وَيُجْزِئُ مِنْ ذَلِكَ رَكْعَتَانِ يَرْكَعُهُمَا مِنْ الضُّحَى

“Setiap ruas tulang tubuh manusia wajib dikeluarkan sedekahnya, setiap hari ketika matahari terbit. Mendamaikan antara dua orang yang berselisih adalah sedekah, menolong orang dengan membantunya menaiki kendaraan atau mengangkat kan barang ke atas kendaraannya adalah sedekah, kata-kata yang baik adalah sedekah, tiap-tiap langkahmu untuk mengerjakan shalat adalah sedekah, dan membersihkan rintangan dari jalan adalah sedekah”. (Bukhari dan Muslim)

4. Berangkat kerja atau belajar dengan berharap karena Allah

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

مَا أَكَلَ أَحَدٌ طَعَامًا خَيْرًا مِنْ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ مِنْ عَمِلِ يَدِهِ، وَكَانَ دَاوُدُ لا يَأْكُلُ إِلا مِنْ عَمِلِ يَدِهِ

“Tidaklah seseorang memakan makanan, lebih baik dari yang didapat oleh tangannya sendiri, dan bahwa nabi Daud makan dari hasil tangannya sendiri”. (Bukhari)

Dalam hadits lainnya nabi juga bersabda:

مَنْ سَلَكَ طَرِيقًا يَلْتَمِسُ فِيهِ عِلْمًا سَهَّلَ اللَّهُ لَهُ طَرِيقًا إِلَى الْجَنَّةِ

“Barangsiapa yang berjalan dalam rangka mencari ilmu, maka Allah akan memudahkan baginya jalan menuju surga”. (Muslim)

d. Menyibukkan diri dengan dzikir sepanjang hari

Allah berfirman :

أَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ

“Ketahuilah dengan berdzikir kepada Allah maka hati akan menjadi tenang” (Ra’ad : 28)

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

أَحَبُّ الأَعْمَالِ إِلَى اللهَ أَنْ تَمُوْتَ ولسانُك رَطْبٌ من ذِكْرِ الله

“Sebaik-baik perbuatan kepada Allah adalah saat engkau mati sementara lidahmu basah dari berdzikir kepada Allah” (Thabrani dan Ibnu Hibban) .

5. Agenda saat shalat Zhuhur

a. Menjawab azan untuk shalat Zhuhur, lalu menunaikan shalat Zhuhur berjamaah di Masjid khususnya bagi laki-laki

b. Menunaikan sunnah rawatib sebelum Zhuhur 4 rakaat dan 2 rakaat setelah Zhuhur

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

مَنْ صَلَّى اثْنَتَيْ عَشْرَةَ رَكْعَةً فِي يَوْمٍ وَلَيْلَةٍ بُنِيَ لَهُ بِهِنَّ بَيْتٌ فِي الْجَنَّةِ

“Barangsiapa yang shalat 12 rakaat pada siang dan malam hari maka Allah akan membangunkan baginya dengannya rumah di surga”. (Muslim).

6. Agenda saat dan setelah shalat Ashar

a. Menjawab azan untuk shalat Ashar, kemudian dilanjutkan dengan menunaikan shalat Ashar secara berjamaah di masjid

b. Mendengarkan nasihat di masjid (jika ada)

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

مَنْ غَدَا إِلَى الْمَسْجِدِ لا يُرِيدُ إِلا أَنْ يَتَعَلَّمَ خَيْرًا أَوْ يَعْلَمَهُ، كَانَ لَهُ كَأَجْرِ حَاجٍّ تَامًّا حِجَّتُهُ

“Barangsiapa yang pergi ke masjid tidak menginginkan yang lain kecuali belajar kebaikan atau mengajarkannya, maka baginya ganjaran haji secara sempurna”. (Thabrani – hasan shahih)

c. Istirahat sejenak dengan niat yang karena Allah

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

وَإِنَّ لِبَدَنِكَ عَلَيْكَ حَقٌّ

“Sesungguhnya bagi setiap tubuh atasmu ada haknya”.

Agenda prioritas:

Membaca Al-Quran dan berkomitmen semampunya untuk:

- Membaca ½ hizb dari Al-Quran untuk mendapatkan khatam Al-Quran sebanyak 1 kali

- Membaca 1 hizb dari Al-Quran untuk mendapatkan khatam Al-Quran sebanyak 2 kali

- Bagi yang mampu menambah sesuai kemampuan, maka akan menuai kebaikan yang berlimpah insya Allah.

7. Agenda sebelum Maghrib

a. Memperhatikan urusan rumah tangga – melakukan mudzakarah – Menghafal Al-Quran

b. Mendengarkan ceramah, nasihat, khutbah, untaian hikmah atau dakwah melalui media

c. Menyibukkan diri dengan doa

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

الدُّعَاءُ هُوَ الْعِبَادَةُ

“Doa adalah ibadah”

8. Agenda setelah terbenam matahari

a. Menjawab azan untuk shalat Maghrib

b. Menunaikan shalat Maghrib secara berjamaah di masjid (khususnya bagi laki-laki)

c. Menunaikan shalat sunnah rawatib setelah Maghrib – 2 rakaat

d. Membaca dzikir sore

e. Mempersiapkan diri untuk shalat Isya lalu melangkahkan kaki menuju masjid

Rasulullah saw bersabda:

مَنْ تَطَهَّرَ فِي بَيْتِهِ ثُمَّ مَشَى إِلَى بَيْتٍ مِنْ بُيُوتِ اللَّهِ لِيَقْضِيَ فَرِيضَةً مِنْ فَرَائِضِ اللَّهِ كَانَتْ خَطْوَتَاهُ إِحْدَاهُمَا تَحُطُّ خَطِيئَةً وَالْأُخْرَى تَرْفَعُ دَرَجَةً

“Barangsiapa yang bersuci/berwudhu kemudian berjalan menuju salah satu dari rumah-rumah Allah untuk menunaikan salah satu kewajiban dari kewajiban Allah, maka langkah-langkahnya akan menggugurkan kesalahan dan yang lainnya mengangkat derajatnya”. (Muslim)

9. Agenda pada waktu shalat Isya

a. Menjawab azan untuk shalat Isya kemudian menunaikan shalat Isya secara jamaah di masjid

b. Menunaikan shalat sunnah rawatib setelah Isya – 2 rakaat

c. Duduk bersama keluarga/melakukan silaturahim

d. Mendengarkan ceramah, nasihat dan untaian hikmah di Masjid

e. Dakwah melalui media atau lainnya

f. Melakukan mudzakarah

g. Menghafal Al-Quran

Agenda prioritas

Membaca Al-Quran dengan berkomitmen sesuai dengan kemampuannya untuk:

- Membaca ½ hizb dari Al-Quran untuk mendapatkan khatam Al-Quran sebanyak 1 kali

- Membaca 1 hizb dari Al-Quran untuk mendapatkan khatam Al-Quran sebanyak 2 kali

- Bagi yang mampu menambah sesuai kemampuan bacaan maka telah menuai kebaikan berlimpah insya Allah.


Apa yang kita jelaskan di sini merupakan contoh, sehingga tidak harus sama persis dengan yang kami sampaikan, kondisional tergantung masing-masing individu. Semoga ikhtiar ini bisa memandu kita untuk optimalisasi ibadah insya Allah. Allahu a’lam

Jazaakillah

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